Meals on Wheels and More announces the launch of our new advice column featuring pearls of wisdom from a handful of our senior clients, as well as our wittiest (and wisest) local celebrity supporter Gladys Hardy, whom you may know from her frequent appearances on the Ellen DeGeneres show!

 

We have so much we can learn from our elders, so don't let this valuable resource go to waste. If you're seeking an answer to one of life's burning questions or are simply curious about a historical event, just ask the Wisdom Circle by sending an email to wisdom@mealsonwheelsandmore.org or sending them "snail mail" to Meals on Wheels and More, Attn: Wisdom Circle, 3227 East 5th Street, Austin, TX 78702.

 

You can also submit questions to the Wisdom Circle simply by commenting on this blog or contact us on Facebook (www.facebook.com/mealsonwheelsandmore) and Twitter (@mealsonwheels) through @ reply or direct message (use the hashtag #wcmow).

 

Hear what Gladys Hardy has to say

 

Read Responses from other Wisdom Circle columnists 

 

Q: In friendship, what is the most important quality to have and look for in someone else and how can I recognize this?

 

Dee Clair:  Friends need to be dependable and people you can trust. For example, when one makes plans to meet with a friend, don't be a "no-show". Call first and let your friend know you have to cancel.

Grannie Pat:  Look for someone who cares about people! Someone who is clean in mind and spirit and adventuresome! Some friends will be there for life, others are just friends in certain situations. As the saying goes, "Make new friends, but keep the old. One is silver and the other's gold." Your friends may be people of a different race or religion, but if they are dedicated to you they will be a good friend. And remember, don't be afraid to make the first move.

Granny C: Look for people you can trust. Listen to them as you get to know them and practice trust in your own self.

 

Q: In choosing my college major and career, should I focus on finding a job that I love or a job that makes money?

 

Grannie Pat: It would be nice if they were one in the same. I was lucky in that I was able to make an adequate living in a field that I loved and felt useful. Go for the major that you love and minor in making a living - they may turn out to be the same! Do not have fear. Venture out! Don't think you have to do the same thing all of your life. Our interests change. Times move fast!

Lil C: My knee-jerk response is go for the money! But my final thought is to focus on a career that you love and are passionate about. You will be more productive that way and have a wonderful adventure.

 

Q: What do you think about today's music?

 

Grannie Pat: Some of the music today is fine, just like when I was growing up and Elvis was coming on the scene. Some songs are better than others and easier to listen to. Don't care for heavy metal, myself! I think that songs with obscenities should be banned, as well as songs that demean women. I do, however, like some rap and break dancing. Those genres have a lot of stories to tell and are very athletic. I also think the Jonas Brothers have helped to bring some civility to the teen scene, along with Christian rock.

Granny C: Some of today's music is very hard to understand. Some of it you probably wouldn't want to understand.